The relay has the number 30 on it, part number 165 906 381 which appears to be a fuel pump or general relay - is this man enough for the job?
It has 2 large wires going to it, leisure battery + and main battery +
The other 2 are black/red and blue, these go to smaller terminals on the alternator, the blue one to a post near the battery main cable, the black/red to a spade terminal higher up.
With the engine running, the battery +wire is reading 14.2v which seems to be fine, the leisure battery still reads 11.75v, blue wire reads 14.05v, black/red wire reads 0.05v.
Both large cables on the relay appear to have overheated at some point, slightly melted

The questions are, is this relay suitable?
Are these wires going to the right places?
The battery is a 75ah normal battery, Not leisure, is this ok?
Would this have been retro fitted or factory (1990 diesel multivan, eberspacher fitted)
Thanks