There is a wire running to the dash for engine speed, its used by the DOP buzzer of doom oil presure thing (and revcounter on revcounter dash). Being a late van you'll have DOP so its worth tapping into rather than cutting this feed.
Personly I'd take the feed from the relay bord as it requires no messing with original wires, or even finding them in looms.
- Function / Relay position 2 / Relay position 4
Ignition 15 (unfused!) / pin 4 / pin 4
tacho signal / pin 5 / pin 1
earth 31 / pin 1 /pin 6
Sould work for petrol and diesel (def diesel), in conjunction with apropreate tacho for your engine type obveously.
For fused 15 surply use G2 or G5 behind the fusebox, use insulated female 6.3mm blade. That'll use fuse 18, brake warning lamp.
At least one the relay positions should be free. Just shove a 6.3mm male blade in the numbered holes for 15 and 31, a 2.8mm male blade for tacho signal.