Never seen an 8 pin towbar socket myself
There's the 2 types of UK ones 12N (black usually) for standart trailers etc, which can be combined with the 12S (often a grey plug) for caravans needing additional power for fridges and batteries in them etc, and the 13 pin Euro socket which is basically both of the uk ones rolled into one. Generally the multi core cable comes in either 7 cored (black or grey) and 13 cored with a standard set of coloured core insulation.
Have a hunt round the site in the link I gave you or have a look at towsure, for a few more clues. Good luck.