I thought it would be worth sharing my experience to maybe make it easier for others.
These are the offending wheels

I had them re drilled to suit after measuring holes in other alloys for m14 bolts,holes measured 15mm so went with a 15mm drill bit.
I had some tyres thrown on 205/50/15 for the back and 165/60/15s for the front not taken pics but I'll post them tomorrow.
So in excitement I fitted a front wheel and to my discusst it didn't turn as it was sat on the upper arm

Spacers needed then the wheels are et37 if I remember rightly I'll chech tomorrow.
So spacers then

H&r 25mm for the front and 30mm for the rear (not sure about clearance on the sliding door yet)
If using h&r spacers they are not specific to a t25 so you need the ones listed as vw/merc spacers (I can give part numbers after i have fitted them)they have the merc hub size but the vw m14 holes and bolts but on the rears you will have to source your own shallow head nuts with 60 degree taper £1.50 each on the bay.
That's as far as I've got its the big day tomorrow weather permitting I'll share my success or failure tomorrow

Cheers
Bry