Anyway as The square ones came with the van, I'd like them to work

1. Does anyone know how to connect them, Wiring diagram?

2. Can I just use spade connectors or do I need to use the correct connector on the inner headlights
3. If yes to correct connect, ay ideas where to get one?
4. As the van was round headlight, and now I use the inner high beams as well (I hope),do I need to upgrade the relay? If so which one and to what?
Pictures to help

Apologies for the many questions.