leebanksuk wrote:please help me.........I could cry right now!

Start off with the TPS. It's on the underside of the throttlebody, and there's a little multiplug. Adjust it so that it clicks audibly RELIABLY when you open and close the throttle from idle, every time, no matter whether you release the throttle gently or snap it shut from full-open. Then, with a multimeter, make sure you can see it going open-close with the engine running, every time.
Take the idle valve off, and give it a good spray with carb cleaner inside. Half fill it, with your fingers over the ports to hold the carb cleaner in, and give it a really good shake. Repeat. Take any restrictions off the hoses, and make sure they're air-tight.
Once that's done, if you turn the ignition on but don't start the engine, you should hear and feel the idle valve buzz. Now start it up from cold, and see what the idle speed does with the valve connected and disconnected. Same hot. That'll show you if it's doing something. If it isn't, it might be the valve, it might be the module. I suspect the valve is probably a standard component across a range of similar era injected stuff.