I've just joined this forum and just got my first T25 too

I've been working my way through the list of things that need sorting and I started this weeked on the gearbox. Gear selection of 3/4 gears was horrible - if I got the engine speed just right I could change into these gears without too much of a clunk. My first thought was the synchromesh was gone, but I read that choosing the correct gear oil can make a big difference so I bought some 75W90 GL4/5 Fuchs semi-synthetic oil and I was going to put it today...
But I'd like to ask for some opinions on what I found.. The oil that came out was really dark with a copper-ish shine to it (it looks like it has minute flecks of copper in it that shine in the light). I also noticed that there might be a leak where the gear linkage goes into the gearbox, so I decided not to put the good oil in but rather some cheaper 75W80 GL5 for 2 reasons:
1. To flush out the old oil before putting in the good oil.
2. So I don't waste the good oil if I have to do some work on the gearbox (where the linkage goes in).
I've attached pics of the linkage - can anyone comment on the leak and what would be involved in fixing it? Also, what do you think of the old oil that came out?
Many thanks,
Michael