On behalf of OBG = Yes, that is how it works, a flat leisure will "pull" a hefty current, lessening as it charges up. Once it is charged it will only pull a small amount of current, from the alternator, via the relay.kit wrote:Oldie, if the leisure battery is nearly fully charged would it take less of a strain on the relay so it could work as just a trickle charge?
A flat leisure battery can pull over 30 Amps initially

So, two things to do = replace that relay with a tougher one, and keep an eye on the resting voltage of the leisure battery, as in measure it after no van use for a day or more. Less than 12.6 volts and it's either on it's way out, or you have a parasitic current drain.