Hey Guys,
Latest update.
I managed to get a few days on a ramp which makes working much easier. After spending an evening reading on various forums I had some more ideas to try.
I worked out that I could select the gears easy at the gear box with the linkage off, with the engine running and with the engine off. I did notice that sometimes it would just pop in and other times it would take a more effort to select the gears but i could find all the gears.
I then went onto the linkage. I think my new rear gear selector bush was getting stuck on the gear linkage bend near the gear box.(photo below of the bend in the rod) So I put back on my old bush, gear box ball and cup.

I then adjusted the linkage as per the Bentley to give me a base line position. I could get all the gears but 1st was hard and needed to push down to find it. Next I loosened the center gear shift rod joint and with a pair of vice grips on each rod I slowly turned the rod clockwise. It only took a little amount of turning but lots of time to find the perfect selection of all gears.

With engine off and on.
I next looked at the new slave to see if it was throwing the arm on the cross shaft far enough. With a spacer between the slave rod and cross shaft arm i noticed the the cross arm moved and extra 5mm making my clutch bite higher off the floor. I think I will have to make up and adjustable rod so I can fine tune this as the clutch bite is closer to the floor and it would be nicer to have it higher.
With the above done I drove the van in all gears on the ramp and all was fine
I next looked into the reverse shudder. On the ramp reverse worked ok but with the van on the floor the shudder was so bad that even with the clutch fully depressed the van would not roll in reverse. This in turn caused severe kangaroo bounce when trying to reverse. I have a de-coupler fitted so wondered if I had put the vacuum pipes (and wires) on the correct way? (anyone no the correct pipe and wring)
I pulled the de-coupler and rear dif lock knobs and pushed them back in and it seemed better? Someone said my VC could cause wind up in reverse?
One thing i noted while under van is the new pooh plate still leaves the bell housing open to crap entering. (photos below) Are other Syncros like this? I feel with sand and water getting in there it won't do the clutch much good?
Today was the first day i got to drive the van. Set off, all gears good, would even say smooth

. Engine on or off. Still get some reverse judder but not so much, but rolls freely in reverse, clutch in and in gear. After about 10km, gears start playing up, notchy selection, hard to find gears. Then I come to use reverse, lots of judder and generally not happy about going backwards.
With the engine off in the car park I select the gears, a little notchy but more or less ok.
Off we go again and it dosent want to release from 2nd, like its stuck in gear. Then all fine again...ahhhhh

Next I am at a busy bit of rd and I can't find any gears, i end up bending the gear stick to find 2nd ...

Then the gears are back but notchy.
The van is now dumped on the drive way ....
So what the XXXX is wrong?
Is it an intermittent selection problem in the box that comes and goes ... That is my latest theory.
I am sure you guys are bored of this post by now, but ideas please.